Progress

I' finding it a bit challenging keeping this blog updated.   It's a strange combination of being really busy and not feeling like there is anything to write about.  I'm sure I'll find the right balance in time.

Work has been really busy.   We are heading into the busy season at Retama Village from a sales perspective.   I don't think I explained exactly what I do here.   Besides selling homes and RV lots in Retama, I also manage our Design Center.   I have input on new plans and make sure our design options are available, priced correctly etc.

Once we have a contract to build a home, I also represent the buyer through the building process.  That means I make sure what we build is what the customer expected, spot problems early on the process, help find solutions to problems as they arise, and track changes and additions through the process.   If there is a going to be a mortgage, I work with the buyer and their lender to make sure we have everything I place when the house is done.

The other big part of my job is that I am also a REALTOR for Rhodes Realty LLC.   We decided to add this element as a service to our residents.  We haven't really made an announcement and I already have 6 listings.  That's a great number for any agent after a couple of months!

So add those things up and I think I have at least 3 jobs.   It's a really good thing I love them all!  

Right now it's been a little hard to juggle though because I lhave been trying to deal with the breast cancer thing.   I was initially diagnosed on August 20.  Since then I have been trying to find the right doctor and facility for treatment.   My first choice was MD Anderson.  I have been arguing with them for over 4 weeks now about insurance coverage.   They have been worried that because my insurance policy has a pre-existing condition clause they will not be paid.   Both my insurance and I have been trying to explain that it is not an issue.   Well, Tuesday a miracle occurred and they called to say we could go forward with appointments and treatment.   So I have appointments in Houston next Wednesday and Thursday.   From there we will determine treatment and proceed.

The other -- and best -- part of life these days is Marcello.   He's the guy I met on Match.com.   We've been communicating for a little over 6 weeks now.   A couple of weeks after we started talking, he had to go to the North Sea for 6 weeks for a work contract.   We've kept emailing and chatting and calling.  Technology has often failed us with lousy Internet connections and no signal for the satellite phone.   In spite of all that, things are great!   We know each other better since all we've been able to do is talk.  Now we're really looking forward to spending some quality time together. He will be coming to visit in 10 days!  Can't wait!  

At least our first date won't be for surgery.  We'll save that for date 2...

Live from Hershey

I'm in Hershey, PA working my first RV show.   I've attended quite a few, but never worked one.  It's been fun if tiring.   The show opens at 9 am and closes at 8 pm so days are really long!  Only 2 more days left and then another long day flying back to McAllen.

I did get out a little bit and looked at some RVs.  So far I like one of the Entegra motorhomes best, but who knows.  I'd like to take a look at the New Horizon 5th wheels while I'm here and see what else there is.  Truth is there are so many options here it's really kind of overwhelming.   And since I don't have a lot of time to look, that makes it hard.

As far as an update on the breast cancer front, I was finally able to get a conference call in with the MD Anderson people and the insurance people.   I think we made progress with the insurance people explaining to MD Anderson that so far they have covered all costs with the breast cancer since I was diagnosed after the insurance effective date.  Hopefully I will hear good news on Monday.   Keep your fingers crossed...

On the online dating front...   I signed up a little over a month ago.   So here's a little catch up report.  I got messages from several gentlemen and exchanged some emails.  Some were just strange.  One basically blasted me for not having more pictures posted.   Another professed his undying love after a few email exchanges.  Scary!  Being me, I tried to be polite and reply to everyone.   There were a few I didn't... Like Mr. FetishMaster... Really???  Lol

Soon after I signed up I got a very nice message from a gentleman.   We started exchanging emails, then some text messages and finally phone conversations.   He's a little uncomfortable with me sharing much information here just yet, so for now I'll just tell you that we both deactivated our profiles because we don't want to be distracted by others.  He's been amazingly wonderful about the breast cancer thing -- imagine just getting to know someone and they spring that on you...

As things progress we will figure out together what we're both comfortable with sharing.   What I can say right now is that he makes me laugh, is very supportive and I have not found any warts no make how hard I look for them, so I'm feeling very happy and optimistic about where things are going.

Time to call it a night so I'm ready for another long day tomorrow.  If you happen to be at Hershey, stop and say hi!

Packed for an Early Flight

Tomorrow morning at 7 am I will be on a flight to Hershey, PA for my first big RV Show.  Well, actually I will be on leg one of a two stop flight to Harrisburg, where I'll pick up the car and drive the last bit.. lol

I'm only going to take the iPad with me, so hopefully that will work out.  It will be something of an experiment.  In theory everything will work...

We have a booth at the show for Bentsen Palm Village RV Resort and Retama Village.   We'll be inside the Giant Center on the concourse level so if you are at the show stop and say hi!   I love to put real live faces with names.

We'll be staffing both the industry days and the public show.   Hopefully I will have time to go check out RVs during the industry days.   I really don't have much idea of what to expect.

So it's a very early morning for me.   Next post from Hershey...

Meeting People Online

I've made a lot of good friends online...

It started about 3 years ago when I.began researching the idea of living and traveling full time in an RV.  A few Google searches turned up the online journals of people of all areas and walks of life doing just that.  As I followed their journeys and exchanged messages, friendships were formed with some.  Some of us have managed to meet in person over time as we end up in the same general area for a bit of time.  Other meetings are yet to come.

We stay in touch with each other through blogs, facebook, emails, messages, chatrooms and phone calls.  We started as friends because of a shared interest in the RV lifestyle.  Over time that focus has changed for some of us, but the friendship remains.

So I have some experience with connecting with really great people online -- you know who you are!  lol

As I said, I landed in Mission, Texas for a great job in January of this year.  And while I'm happy with my life and okay by myself I would love to find someone to share the rest of my life with.  The problem is that I did not know a soul here other than the folks I work with and the residents of the community that I sell homes in.  As great as the folks are that I work with, none of them are single.  And even if htey were, I wouldn't be comfortable dating someone that I work with.

And most of the folks who live in Retama Village are firmly part of a couple.  Even if they weren't I wouldn't feel very comfortable dating someone there.   It's a very small community and I'm sort of in the public eye there.  lol

So after talking to some other friends about the pros and cons of online dating, I decided to give it a shot.  The first site I tried was Zoosk.com.  It wsa free and I know someone a bit older than me who met someone very nice there.  I filled out the info, said I was interested in someone 45-55 years old within 50 miles.  Within in moments I was getting lots of chat requests and  messages.  Sounds great huh?  WRONG!  Most were from 19 year olds...  So my Zoosk adventure lasted about 1 hour and I deleted my profile...

Not to be deterred, I saw the commercial on TV for OurTime.com.  Hmmm... Maybe this will is the one.  No 19 year olds on a site designed for "mature adults" to meet.  And on the commercial the folks all seem fun, vibrant and active.  Granted I didn't give it much of a chance (I was there a couple of hours), but the folks I found there were quite a bit older than me both chronologically and lifestyle wise.  Another one deleted.

I know a few friends who speak highly of eHarmony.  I also know from expereience helping a friend create their profile, it can take hours to get set up on that site.  The premise is to do a very thurough online tinterview so they have a better idea of what you are looking for and can send matches that are more likely to have things in common and be looking for the same things.  A good idea I admit, but I just wasn't up for spending a couple hours answering personal questions.

So I decided to try the giant in the online dating world -- Match.com.  I know people who have met there and it was relatively straightforward getting started.  I spent about 10 minutes writing a "stream of consciousness" profile, paid my money and waited to see what happened.

More in the next post on what's happened with that...

Have a great day everyone!

A Fresh Start

I have been thinking for some time that I would like to get back to blogging, but wasn't sure how I wanted to do it.   So in typical Carol over analysis fashion, I thought about it for months.  I'm not sure why but the time feels right to just do it.  Hopefully it won't be too boring (one of my deep seated fears) since I'm not doing the RV travel thing right now.

For readers of past blogs and by way of introduction,  a little bit of catch up.

I am officially single.   Long story, but suffice it to say I decided it was better to be single than continue as it was going.

I have landed in Mission, Texas at  Bentsen Palm Development.   I have a cute little 1 bedroom house in a RV park (Bentsen Palm Village RV Resort) that is primarily occupied by Winter Texans, so it's a little quiet around here this time of the year.   

Carol's Casita

 I work for the developer selling new homes and RV lots in Retama Village which is the community next door.  Basically I live where I work and the commute is a short walk or golf cart ride.  I've also reactivated my real estate license so I can list lots and homes for resale by owners.

Backyard

I work for the best folks on the planet and feel really fortunate to have this opportunity.  The team is great and I really love the communities which makes sales so much easier! 

So work stuff is all great.  I don't have an RV right now and I'm pretty much in one place, but I live with RVers and sell properties to RVers and the people are a big part of what attracted me to the RV lifestyle, so other than being stationary I don't feel like much has changed in that regard.

On the not so great side, I got a breast cancer diagnosis a couple of weeks ago.  One doctor here said it's stage 0 and they are not even sure it should be called cancer.  Of course the surgeon said I should have a mastectomy.  After some research, soul searching and prayers, I've decided to go to MD Anderson in Houston for a 2nd opinion and whatever treatment is necessary.  I feel pretty good about that.  It looks like the worst case scenario at this point is a surgery followed by a few months of discomfort and tiredness and then on with life.

I spent today gathering medical records to fax to them to MD Anderson.   They will review them and determine which specialist I should see and then we'll go from there.  Of course the first step is to actually have their pathologist confirm the diagnosis.   

This diagnosis is part of what prompted me to restart blogging.  I figure it will help me to write about what is going on and maybe along the way I will help someone else.

The other thing going on with me is as I mentioned I'm single.  It was the right choice for me to move on from the past relationships.  But that doesn't mean I want to be single.  Given that I moved to Mission, Texas for work and I don't know a soul other than the people I work with I decided to try online dating.  

When you are younger there are lots of opportunities to meet people.  You meet them at school.  You meet them at work.  You meet them when you go out with your friends.  As you get older, it gets more difficult.  You can still meet people at work, but dating them can be challenging because you worry about the implications of a workplace romance when it's a career kind of job.  Your friends are now mostly halves of couples so when you socialize there gets to be fewer and fewer single people in the group and for some reason that I cannot figure out, they tend to be of the same sex.  Unless someone is trying to fix you up and we won't go there.  lol

So I decided to give the online world of meeting people a try.  More about that in the next post!

Thanks for coming along for the ride!

Hugs...